Relationship...What an amazing thing God has given us, what a trying thing too.

I'm very conscious of my relationships, I thought it was actually an insecurity but I've come to realize it's actually a blessing. Thing is God requires us to actually decide if we wanna be hot or cold, His friend or not, if you are in between He'll spit you out. Revelations 3:16. God is not interested in a partial commitment, a "let's see where this will take us" kind of arrangement. He wants a willing heart and He also wants the fact that we are willing to be in relationship with Him to translate into our lives, He wants us to demonstrate our feelings with actions. 

This vibe I have about relationships is actually okay. I think it doesn't have to even be awkward or complicated. We should just pursue the people we want to have in our lives, and demonstrate our willingness to have them and communicate with honesty, because little things can become monsters that blow up in our faces decades later. Relationships are just people coming into each others lives, fully.

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I've been away for a bit, hahaahahah!!! I wish it was an "away" like a holiday or something. Nope! Just away from the blog. I will be resuming my weekly posts going forward :) yay!!!

I read a bbm status that said "I like the way you walk, The way you talk, the way you dress, the way you smile, I like the way you are, the way you ain't. I like your honesty, integrity, it levels me, so please don't ever change" 

I thought, how can we not want people to change? As we go through each day we discover what works and what doesn't and ...well we change. Everyday, at least I think that is what should be happening. That's how growth comes, with the little daily changes.

But I read it over and over and realized well this is in the context of a relationship, even then I thought, couples should keep changing to the better they discover each day. Then I realized change is freaky in a relationship if there is no covenant, because a covenant stays through change, like God's word. So maybe what she meant was "stay in my life" or "don't stray too far from this you that I know"  Because I don't believe that they truly don't want their partner or even themselves to change like ever. "the way you dress" ?! So he must dress this way forever, lol! even "the way you ain't" what if there are things that he needs to start becoming?! 

"I'm doing my best, the best I know now. When I know better, I'll do better"